Discover the surprisingly
simple secrets to overcoming the pain of childhood emotional abuse and
healing your life from the inside out.
What has taken some people years "on the couch"…
you can accomplish in as little as months, weeks, or days.
Dear Survivor of Childhood Emotional
Abuse,
I’m about to tell you something you already know deep, down inside: childhood emotional abuse is real. It
causes real harm to a child. It creates real problems in the victim’s life. And the problems can go on for years, affecting everything from
your health to your relationships to your career success…and, of course, your
happiness.
I know what I’m talking about because I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to be a child who is ignored,
belittled, ridiculed, rejected, and neglected. Yes, I was an emotionally abused child.
After spending so many years trying to work through the pain of the abuse alone—and getting nowhere—
I honestly thought recovery would be some kind of
gigantic hurdle.
Yes…I thought I’d need years of expensive, time-consuming therapy. You probably know what I mean: digging up and
slogging through all my childhood memories. Pouring my heart out to a shrink. Perhaps finding a support group of fellow
sufferers.
My journey was long and difficult, but when I finally found the solution…it turned out to be suprisingly simple.
And I can show you the shortcut!
If you long for health, wealth, strong relationships, and the happiness that has evaded you, you simply can’t
ignore your need to do something to change your life. And you can begin changing your life today.
I’m glad you’ve found
Help! I Need a Hug
A Guide to Surviving Childhood Emotional Abuse—
How You Can Heal Yourself, Overcome Your Obstacles,
and Embrace Your Goals
…and you will be too.
My name is Lisa J. Lehr, and chances are I have a good idea of what you’ve been through. I’m happy to tell you
that my life has changed dramatically in a very short time. And I want to tell you how.
Imagine your life just the way you want it to be. Go ahead…imagine!
Is it physical health you desire? Career success, material wealth, freedom from worry about money? A fulfilling
long-term relationship? Happiness?
When you really allow yourself to imagine your life as you want it to be, it’s a feeling like no other, isn’t
it?
But maybe after getting your mind into that wonderful-feeling place, you get slammed back to the reality of "what
is"… and that hopeless feeling that "what is" is what will always be. There’s a reason for that, and it all began with the abuse you
suffered as a child. Because, you see, that abuse actually affected the "wiring" of your brain.
I’m living proof that you can change the course of your life.
Get this: everyone (including you) can have the power to break free of the bondage of childhood emotional
abuse. You can take control of your thoughts, your feelings, and your actions. And you can start today.
Maybe you’re already taking action. You may be reading books, listening to motivational recordings, going to
seminars, working with a life coach. That’s all good!
But unless you acknowledge that the difficulties you’ve been struggling with all these years began with the harm
that was done to you in childhood, you will probably stay "stuck" forever. (It’s because of your brain’s faulty wiring!)
No, you don’t have to dig up and slog through all those painful memories. You probably won’t need to spend years
"on the couch." You just need to realize that you can take control of your thoughts, feelings, and actions…your life.
Here’s what I’ve done to help you:
- Traveled that journey myself. Although each childhood emotional abuse victim’s story is unique and deeply
personal, I have a good sense of what you’re going through.
- Spent years reading books and studying people. Combining personal experience and research with my degree in
biology and a basic understanding of the human brain has given me a rare insight into this special set of problems.
- Compiled the "meat" of my study into a practical, readable guide.
- Created 10 flexible exercises to help you practice controlling your thoughts, feelings, and
actions.
- Crafted my "21 principles for making peace with your past and bringing your goals closer than you ever
dreamed possible."
At $27.95, this guide will cost you
less than what you'd spend on 20
minutes with a therapist! Yes--according to wikihow.com, the average therapist's fee
is $110 per hour! (And who ever spends only 20 minutes with a therapist?)
Stuff even your therapist might not know…
For so many years, I felt so completely alone.
As you probably know, a family with an emotionally abused child usually looks pretty "normal" from the outside.
These kids usually don’t have scars, bruises, or broken bones. You may have tried to tell someone what was happening to you and you
couldn’t put it into words. Maybe you did tell, but no one believed you. Or they said, "big deal."
After all, childhood emotional abuse can be hard to define and harder to recognize.
You may have spent years thinking you were crazy; that you imagined the harm that had been done to you; that it
was your fault; that it was all in your head.
What’s worse is when you do try to talk about it, and someone tells you to "just get over it"… "suck it
up"… "quit whining." I’m here to tell you: denial is deadly. You may have spent years going around in circles: try to get over it… start to
feel crazy… try to talk about it… get rebuffed… try to get over it… try to talk about it… try to get over it… over and over and over
again.
I spent years doing just
that.
Eventually, something wonderful happened: I discovered that there were people who did understand what I
was going through. Some of them had written books about childhood emotional abuse. Some had written books on getting un-stuck from "what
is." Some had written books on reaching goals.
All this information neatly dovetailed into what seemed like the "perfect solution" for survivors of childhood
emotional abuse: how to deal with what happened in the past, take control of the present, and move on to a future worth living
for.
After I realized that I have the power to change my thoughts, feelings, and actions—without a shrink!—I
started looking for a way to use my journey to help others like me.
Now you can have what I discovered, in condensed form.
It shouldn’t take you as many years as it took me. I’m showing you the shortcut.
You probably won’t need to read dozens of books. (Although it won’t hurt a bit if you want to…and I’ll tell you
which ones you should read!)
You won’t need to get a degree in biology. I’ll tell you what you most need to know about your brain and how it
controls your thoughts, feelings, and actions—in simple terms, of course!
And you won’t need to spend years and years "on the couch." Although if you prefer to use my guide as a
supplement to therapy you may already be receiving, that’s okay too.
You can get started today.
Just click to order your copy of
Help! I Need a Hug
A Guide to Surviving Childhood Emotional Abuse—
How You Can Heal Yourself, Overcome Your Obstacles,
and Embrace Your Goals

P.S. If you’re not sure yet, simply put your name and e-mail address in this box:
and you’ll receive a free report, "A Hug: the Miracle Drug" and a series of empowering weekly messages. You can
return to this page any time you want. But do you really want to spend another day going around that insanity-provoking circle…
try to talk about it… try to get over it… over and over and over again?
I didn’t think so!
Help! I Need a Hug
A Guide to Surviving Childhood Emotional Abuse—
How You Can Heal Yourself, Overcome Your Obstacles,
and Embrace Your Goals
just let me know within 30 days, and I’ll refund your money. I’d appreciate
it, though, if you’d send me a brief note explaining how it disappointed you, so I’ll know how I can improve
it.
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