Posts Tagged ‘traditions’

Another thought about Christmas traditions

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

Today I’m going to tackle another Christmas tradition: shopping. Christmas shopping is definitely a modern tradition, and perhaps an American-influenced one. In past decades and centuries, shopping wasn’t something people did much of. I remember the pilot for the television series The Waltons, back in the early 1970s. I don’t remember the name of the pilot, but I want to say it was The Homecoming. The Waltons quickly became my favorite television series—which made me somewhat of an oddball among my age group.

But I remember in the pilot, John-Boy had to go out and help someone in the snow, so Mama Walton gave him his gift to open early: hand-knit mittens. Okay, so it was the Depression, and people were poor. But similar themes play out in Little House on the Prairie, The Gift of the Magi, and countless other beloved stories across time. Gifts were hand-made things, store-bought candy, and very simple things. Pricey items were the exception.

So what that has to do with me…I simply don’t like shopping. In past decades of my own life, I actually did enjoy Christmas shopping, because of the festivity of the experience, and the chance to buy stuff that would make other people happy. But I didn’t like the time pressure or the fear (every year, the same fear, although never realized) that I wouldn’t get it all done. It seems the talk these past few years has focused on buying less, giving gifts of time, shopping at thrift stores, etc. So the rest of the world is getting in step with me.

Old goal out: start sooner. New goal in: buy less.

So, while I don’t like the idea of jumping on the “it’s the economy” poverty-mentality bandwagon, the “new” American tradition of not shopping suits me just fine. This year, I started my Christmas shopping exactly 11 days before Christmas. And I’m not worried about not getting it all done. Really. 

More thoughts on traditions

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009

Last week, I talked about the silliness of getting stressed out about whether to call a decorated evergreen a “Christmas tree” or a “holiday tree.”

As additional evidence that traditions matter, regardless of where they came from, observe the general attitude toward snow. Some people like and some don’t. Yet when Christmas is approaching, it seems everyone wants snow! Snow somehow reminds people of Christmas. And that’s a bit odd, considering that snow (as well as evergreens) is more reminiscent of Europe and Colonial America than of the Holy Land. It may snow in the Holy Land, and evergreens may grow there. Yet there’s nothing about this in the Biblical account of Christ’s birth, as far as I know.

Let’s be honest. Snow reminds us of such happy things as storybooks, movies, childhood, visits to grandparents, hot chocolate, cookies, tobogganing, snowball fights. Some of these are Christmas-related, simply because Christmas is celebrated in winter—at least if you live in the Northern Hemisphere.

Tradition is important to humans. Most of our Christmas traditions really have very little to do with Christmas. Enjoy.

The importance of traditions

Wednesday, December 2nd, 2009

At this time of year, we must listen to people argue over silly things like whether a decorated evergreen should be called a Christmas tree or a holiday tree.

The premise of the conflict is silly, because there is nothing religious whatsoever about a decorated tree. It’s simply a tradition that has come to us through our primarily European ancestry. People who celebrate Christmas generally have them in their homes and businesses, so they’ve become associated with Christianity. But…so what?

Traditions are important. Consider the places we get our traditions:

–The Bible or other authoritative book of our chosen religion.
–Our particular denomination.
–Our ethnic heritage.
–The region of the country we live in or come from.
–Our extended family.
–Our immediate family.
–Our community.

Now think of all the ways these influences can be combined, and we end up with an infinite variety of ways people can celebrate a holiday. Lots of people like Christmas trees because the decorated tree symbolizes connections to many things, people, and events that are important to us.

Does it really matter what we call it? I don’t think so. If you don’t celebrate Christmas, go to church, read the Bible, or have European people in your ancestry, just enjoy the sight of a pretty decorative item. If you don’t enjoy it, let others enjoy it in peace. That’s my suggestion to those who would get all worked up about the phrase “Christmas tree.”